Hannah Jennings: Northwest USA

This is my story, word for word, from this piece: www.derbycentral.net/2018/01/roller-derby-has-a-sexual-assault-problem-and-we-need-to-talk-about-it. Posting it here in support of this site and everything it stands for. Roller derby, sit down for a second. We need to talk. It’s taken me eight years to write down what I’m about to say. Not because I’ve forgotten what happened to me or because it doesn’t affect me. I’ve waited because I didn’t think my story was worthy of reporting, and lacked the bravery and self worth to say something. I feared the things they’d say. “That’s just what happens at after parties.” “It was probably Read More


Anonymous: region unknown

I am a skater at a small league. We were always said to be a ladies team but as I went into fresh meat with a number of new females and to our surprise, males. Most of which were fine. One much older man, from the start was not like the rest. He only talked to females, even though other men were present. I always felt uncomfortable skating with him, most did. One session we were pracicting whips in a pace line. We were not to hold on to each other in the line but for whatever reason he insisted Read More


Anonymous: Southern USA

Parties in my league mean lots of of drinking and partying at a local bar sponsor. One night a very drunk skater from a different team in the league decided I had stolen her drink (I didn’t) and she rushed up to me grabbing my throat and squeezing while demanding I find her missing drink. This person has a history of damaging property and making others uncomfortable when drunk, and people in the league usually laugh it off. I played nice and didn’t complain about the incident, because I didn’t want her mad at me next time she was drinking Read More


Anonymous: region unknown

About four or five years ago I was part of a league where the women joked around with each other about sticking their fingers near or in an opponent’s vagina while on the jam line. It was a joke: Like “ha ha, wouldn’t this be funny!” Until someone did it to their teammate. The woman who was touched confided in me that she was really uncomfortable about being touched this way especially DURING the game, but didn’t want to say anything about it. She was new to the league, she didn’t want to rock the boat, blah, blah, blah. Later Read More


Resource Wednesday: Gender Inclusion Policies

Over the past few years, both the WFDTA and MRDA have introduced gender inclusion policies. To be a member of a WFTDA, a person must most closely identify with being a woman. [1]. Any person identifying as any or no gender may be a member of an MRDA league. [2]. With transgender people being an integral part of so many leagues, it is important to be aware of the specific issues they may face. Indeed, statistics documenting transgender people’s experience of sexual violence indicate shockingly high levels of sexual abuse and assault. One in two transgender individuals are sexually abused Read More


Anna-Ellen L: Northeast USA

I have experimented with many different ways of processing the trauma I’ve experienced in an abusive relationship, and the trauma experienced when entities designed to protect people failed. I’m choosing to share some of the pieces I have written due to recently hearing about public responses regarding sexual assault and abuse which occurred within the roller derby community. Sharing this also seems timely as one year ago I had to leave my roller derby home team to put an end to harassment from the person who abused me. Names of people and specific teams are going to be left out. Read More


Resource Wednesday: Myths vs Facts

There are many myths that are common regarding sexual violence, assault, and harassment. Sadly, these myths may severely impact the survivors of sexual assault, harassment, or abuse and also affects the behavior of the friends and family of survivors. Please be on the lookout for these common myths. Myth: Sexual assault is an act of lust and passion that can’t be controlled. Fact: Sexual assault is about power and control and is not motivated by sexual gratification. [1] Myth: If a victim of sexual assault does not fight back, they must have thought the assault was not that bad or Read More


Anonymous: Southwest USA

My ex GF (a derby veteran) and I started skating and I loved it, but when we’d go to derby practices together she’d publicly tell people details about our intimate life, or make me the brunt of sexually charged jokes. When I confronted her about it she told me that’s just how derby is, everybody does it. I told her that was not my experience and I hadn’t had the experience with anybody else. She told me I was too sensitive and it’s just part of the game and that she didn’t have a filter and I should know that Read More


Amber K: Northeast USA

A few weeks ago, I was OPRing a home team game in a convention center with a crappy floor. Rather than being concerned with avoiding pitfalls in the OPR lane while skating or looking for back blocks, my attention was constantly drawn to two men leaning up against a wall near turn 3 just outside the track. The first time comment they made sounded like “nice ass.” I ignored it because I wasn’t sure it was about me and I was too busy looking for a multiplayer block to worry about what some guy in the crowd was saying. A Read More


Elizabeth C – Northeast USA (part 2)

Elizabeth C. sent us two stories, which we have split into two separate posts. This is the second. Read her first story here. [PART 2] In the second, I was dating an official and one evening when he was drunk, he punched me. Right in the gut. Because he was mad at me because I didn’t want to be around him while he was being a drunk arsehole. I was silent about it because I was worried that it would affect my staffing. After all, he had been officiating longer than me and since we traveled together… Then I ended Read More


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