It was well known in my league that a vet skater and her husband were swingers. That was the excuse given anytime her husband made advances on other league members. “That’s just how he is.”
After practice, I was kneeling on a bench and talking to another league member when I felt someone caressing my ankle. Alarmed, I turned around, and it’s that guy. He looks surprised that I look as if I’m about to hit him. “Chill out. It’s just me.” I left without saying anything, but feeling like I needed to shower for reasons other than skating for two hours.
Eventually, he made an inappropriate comment to a spectator’s wife, and the spectator confronted him. He was removed from the league; his wife was kicking and screaming that he’s never done anything wrong. I’ve told one other person, who told me he also touched her without permission.